Sweet friend, you never know until you try and your brave steps to 'know' will lead you there. I have no doubt. I'm enjoying this tale so very much and I'm rooting for YOU!!
I'm coming into this piece after hanging in your chat while you talked about it.
I shared the link and wanted to read it with my own eyes.
People, as an interface, give away so many wrong inclinations.
It got me thinking about my personal experiences on first dates, when I started on-line dating.
I started to feel that the person who I was expected to be never manifested because I never met him and had no idea who was being longed for, but it was certainly not me.
I had dates that immediately had that physical touch, where they would fold into my hold and press their ear into my chest as if we'd been forever and I'd wonder to myself, "Where did she go to get that?"
I had dates who were jaded in the sense that my presence was beaten by the imagined rejection that they manifested and projected in sharp barbs and snark.
Before I start a whole article in the comments of a great piece, let me quote Pete, of Pete's Restaurant, in Muppets Take Manhattan, "Peoples is peoples. No is buildings. Is tomatoes, huh? Is peoples, is dancing, is music, is potatoes. So, peoples is peoples. Okay?"
I’m glad you have the “let’s keep going” spirit. I think I would have been less patient than you were in that position. I probably would have said “I’m fucking freezing let’s go to my place” then who knows what would happen. I would never go out with someone if I didn’t want to sleep with him. Yeah, I am not patient.
Sweet friend, you never know until you try and your brave steps to 'know' will lead you there. I have no doubt. I'm enjoying this tale so very much and I'm rooting for YOU!!
THANK YOU, Wendy! That means so much.
lol, I’m talking to a widower a lot for the past three days and the last two hours
Not funny Dana Dubois I blame you for Making Dating Sound Great Again
Am I?? That’s surprising to me… I’d think you’d be running away, screaming! 😏
lol it’s your delivery I guess, you are a gifted storyteller
Thank you. That praise means the world to me. 💜
I've been spending a good deal of time talking to one of those as well, my friend. :)
I'm coming into this piece after hanging in your chat while you talked about it.
I shared the link and wanted to read it with my own eyes.
People, as an interface, give away so many wrong inclinations.
It got me thinking about my personal experiences on first dates, when I started on-line dating.
I started to feel that the person who I was expected to be never manifested because I never met him and had no idea who was being longed for, but it was certainly not me.
I had dates that immediately had that physical touch, where they would fold into my hold and press their ear into my chest as if we'd been forever and I'd wonder to myself, "Where did she go to get that?"
I had dates who were jaded in the sense that my presence was beaten by the imagined rejection that they manifested and projected in sharp barbs and snark.
Before I start a whole article in the comments of a great piece, let me quote Pete, of Pete's Restaurant, in Muppets Take Manhattan, "Peoples is peoples. No is buildings. Is tomatoes, huh? Is peoples, is dancing, is music, is potatoes. So, peoples is peoples. Okay?"
Yes we have likely all had the “Goldie locks” experiences. Note no more outside dates until spring.
Oh NOW you tell me???!?! ;)
lol yes often hindsight is my wisdom
Oh. I thought this was the one. I grew up with Victor the poodle so thought that was a good omen. Too bad….
Yeah... not by miles, sadly. Just you wait--this story takes a turn for the ick before things get better...
Spurts and sparks. I get it. I found my best friend after a few failed attempts. Hope you have too. Anticipation…
I don’t send doodles to just anyone
Right?? Kira was involved! Of course, she loves everyone, so she's not a great judge.
I’m glad you have the “let’s keep going” spirit. I think I would have been less patient than you were in that position. I probably would have said “I’m fucking freezing let’s go to my place” then who knows what would happen. I would never go out with someone if I didn’t want to sleep with him. Yeah, I am not patient.
Hah! Well, I'd never met him before, so I certainly wasn't ready to sleep with him. I'm a bit demisexual, ya know!
I wasn’t sure if I had put that last thought in my comment. You have a way of letting me feel safe to say things that are maybe better kept to myself.
Just woke up… will attempt this again…Entertaining and hilarious… good luck and carry on. 🙏🏼💓