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Red Flag Round Up
🚩 Red Flag Round Up! 🚩 I Write Out Loud | The Podcast
Episode #35 of the I Write Out Loud project--with surprise special guest Anne P. Mitchell
Jul 31
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Dana DuBois
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Anne P. Mitchell, Esq.
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1:07:18
🚩Red Flag Round Up! 🚩 "Not a Boob Guy"
He might not have liked boobs, but he sure did like to neg!
Jul 14
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Dana DuBois
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1:05:55
🚩Red Flag Round Up! 🚩 Meet Mr. "Craving Curves"
To celebrate a pledge-drive milestone, we gathered the latest dating app disasters and turned them into a master class on boundaries, intuition, and…
Jun 20
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Dana DuBois
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1:19:03
🚩Red Flag Round Up 🚩with Dana DuBois: Is He Stalking Me, or My Daughter??
An intro message from a stranger who knows where my kid performs, isn’t looking for anything serious, and wants credit for being “careful.”
Mar 3
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Dana DuBois
31
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1:07:34
Red Flag Round Up with Dana DuBois: Meet Marvin the Man!
When a man opens with “Hello! I am a man!” then you know the chaos is about to begin.
Dec 15, 2025
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Dana DuBois
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50:36
🚩Red Flag Round Up 🚩with Dana DuBois: What's Wrong With Ralph?
A man on the apps negs me, contradicts himself, comments on my boobs, and demands answers. Reader: I did not give him answers.
Dec 7, 2025
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Dana DuBois
36
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1:09:49
Dana’s Online Dating Derp of the Week: Lloyd the Neg
A Gen-X feminist fields reports from the trenches of app-based heterosexuality.
Nov 30, 2025
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Dana DuBois
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40:06
🚩 Dana’s Online Dating Red Flag Round-Up! 🚩
A recording from Dana DuBois's live video
Nov 23, 2025
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Dana DuBois
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31:16
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